Wisdom of the Ages — Seeing Our Elders with New Eyes
The Rhythm of Relationship
I’ve seen it time and again—the quiet shift that occurs when a new puppy, kitten, or even human baby enters the home. The older animal companions, who once had their own rhythm and deep connection with their people, now find themselves navigating a new dynamic.
The new kids don’t mean harm—they’re simply full of life, energy, and needs that naturally command attention. That attention is often freely given, without hesitation.
But something subtle happens in the process.
When the Quiet Ones Fade into the Background
The elder animals—those who once walked in full sync with their humans—can begin to fade from the center of the picture. Not because they are less loved, but because the energy has shifted. I’ve seen it in their eyes: heads tilted slightly, ears perked, bodies still… just waiting.
Waiting to be noticed.
Waiting to be included.
Waiting to feel like they still matter.
And I notice them. My eyes always find them.
Because I know what it feels like to be overlooked—not intentionally - and yet waiting for someone to see.
This Happens with Humans, Too
I’ve witnessed this same pattern in doctors’ offices: an older adult comes in accompanied by a child or caretaker, and the medical staff speaks solely to the companion—asking questions, sharing updates—while the elder is left sitting silently beside them, almost invisible.
It’s not out of cruelty. It’s a habit of our culture.
And it's one we have the power to change.
In My Care, Everyone is Seen
Whether I’m on a joyful dog adventure or a quiet cat companionship visit, I make it a priority that every being—no matter their age—is seen, heard, and included in our shared time.
Sometimes, it’s a gentle brush and a whispered hello.
Other times, it’s a slow walk to the park, a shared snack, or simply sitting in silence together.
Every moment matters when it comes to presence.
The Joy That Keeps Us Going
At every stage of life, joy is what keeps us moving forward.
For our animal companions, joy can look like:
A hand reaching out with love
The familiar scent of the park trail
The sound of a brush gliding through their fur
A favorite treat offered with care
Simply being with someone who sees them
Joy is the thread that weaves through connection, giving all of us—two-legged or four—a reason to keep living, thriving, and feeling whole.
A Closing Reflection
May we remember to pause.
To look around the room.
To meet the eyes of the quiet one who’s waiting.
And to say with presence, “I see you. I’m with you. You matter.”
That’s at the heart of the work I do.
And it’s the wisdom of the ages.
